When someone 'does' something to you and it pushes your emotional buttons it is because somewhere in your subconscious it is triggering something that has probably happened to you as a young child. Things that happen to children cause them to make a meaning about themselves based on the behavior of the other person, usually a parent, caregiver, or teacher. They are often things like 'I'm not good enough', or 'I'm not lovable'; 'I'm not worthy' is another frequent feeling. There are as many meanings as there are incidences that a children can make about themselves and, hear this closely, NONE OF THEM ARE TRUE! These beliefs then form the basis of their behavior for the rest of their lives, or until they have this understanding.
Therefore when you are in a state of unforgiveness with another person it is because you are hurting based on an old feeling from the child within you. Many times this can set up within the child an inability to trust other people, one sex or the other, or life in general. If you dig down deep enough in the anti-trust issue you will find that you are unable to trust yourself, your own judgment based on incorrect self-beliefs.
Forgiveness is a powerful technique for helping you to see what is at the root of the feelings that you have about other people who you blame for hurting you or the circumstances in your life. The reason why this happens is because when you get to the root of the problem you find yourself and the belief you have about yourself which is not true.
Spirit/ God loves you unconditionally and does not create faulty souls. Each and every soul is beautiful and filled with light. It is only when you come to Earth and start to believe the faulty perceptions of people who do not understand about this reality of Spirit that you see life as bad, faulty, dark, fearful. All these are illusions, each and every one. And once you see them as illusions and see yourself as the beautiful, light-filled soul that you are, they can never hurt you again, and you will get to a place where you will be able to say about the other person 'There is nothing to forgive'. They only pushed your internal emotional hot buttons about your incorrect self beliefs. Forgiveness is never, ever about the other person. It is a process to release you from your past by seeing what incorrect beliefs you have about yourself.
Forgiveness is one of the Love techniques that helps you get back to a state of Spiritual Oneness with your Soul and the Creator. As we said it is never about the other person, no matter what they did 'to you'. Everyone you meet is a reflection of something that is going on inside you and when you are a conscious, aware person you get to the point that you can see events for what they are.
You always have the choice in life to react to the events that happen to you, thinking that you have no control over life as most people do; or you can use the events that happen in your life as a mirror for what's going on inside you with your belief system. These events will show you where you have been thinking incorrectly and where you have allowed fear to overtake your ability to listen to your own Spirit self in taking you forward.
It's all about taking responsibility for your life, for how you react or respond, and for the meaning you are making about the event or person. There is no other control you have about life except to take responsibility for yourself and your beliefs. Once you take this kind of control over yourself you become a very powerful creator, which is one of the reasons you came to Earth at this time. Yes, it takes a certain amount of self-awareness and deep pondering, but as Socrates said "the unexamined life is not worth living". This is why meditation and self-reflection and contemplation are powerful tools that we will always encourage you to explore and use.
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