Are you trying to attract prosperity and abundance into your life and you need it so badly you feel desperate? Unfortunately, the more urgently you want it, the bigger the roadblocks that might prevent you from attracting abundance.
For example, I just talked to a friend this morning who was getting ready for a very important phone conversation about a big contract - and he was stressed out because he really needed the money.
I can certainly relate. I've been there, and I still find myself in that spot much more often than I would like to admit.
The problem with stress and what to do about it
If there is one thing you can do to improve your odds of attracting abundance, it's to reduce your stress levels and the sense of urgency and fear, and instead focus on the positive outcome you want.
And that's true no matter what it is you want.
Sure, it's tough to step back from your need and get into the space of happy anticipation and a bit of detachment from the outcome. But once you realize that you'd be far more effective in attracting the abundance you want if you stayed calm, you might try to make more of an effort.
Does it work? Not 100% of the time. But here's something to think about:
How often did you NOT get what you wanted and a few years later were REALLY glad you didn't? It's funny how things work out sometimes.
Okay, so that's not what you wanted to hear right now. Me neither. But it's something to keep in mind, if only for the sake of reducing the pressure in the moment. And that is exactly what will help with attracting abundance!
In fact, if getting what you want is for your higher good, chances are pretty good that things work much more smoothly when you do calm down, focus on the positive outcome and in fact look forward to getting what you want (or something even better).
Basically, this means things tend to come to you as long as you don't push them away. And stressing about things means pushing away what you want to happen.
Why you MUST let go of the worries and stress
The key is to let go of the worries because what you worry about you're likely to attract.
How to calm yourself down when you're stressed
So how can you calm yourself down, let go of the worries, and get excited about what you would like to draw into your life? Here are a few tips:
1) Focus on what you DO want
Abraham-Hicks are adamant about the importance of that, and so is Michael Losier. How do you do that? Just make it your mantra. Every time you worry about something you're afraid might happen, repeat to yourself the question: "So what DO I want?"
Focus on that, and the answers to it, and the worries will fall by the wayside.
2) Feel and Express Gratitude
Gratitude is a very powerful emotion that can quickly overcome feelings of stress. In fact, it seems you can't really be grateful and stressed all at the same time.
How to practice gratitude? Make a list of things you're grateful for, or keep a gratitude journal. Just remind yourself regularly of all the things in your life that deserve gratitude, and really get yourself to feel that emotion.
3) Get an "Attracting Abundance" Mindset
It also helps to build a mindset that consistently works at attracting abundance and prosperity. Your efforts in manifesting abundance are not going to work too well if you keep pushing all that prosperity away by feeling less than worthy, or by having other money blocks.
But here's the challenge...
How do you get that money mindset?
To start with, you should focus on identifying and working through your money blocks. A very helpful technique for that is EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique, which helps you to overcome a whole range of problematic emotions, and is particularly well suited for helping us with attracting abundance even under pressure.
Ready to give EFT a try? Just grab a FREE how-to guide here: Easy EFT Introduction
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